Thursday, January 29, 2009

The-Terrible-Two-Tantrums aka TTTT Syndrom

Bile cakap pasal tantrums, I mmg surrender ler dgn Min. Penah jugak 5-6 kali (bukan sekali dua ok ahha) biarkan je Min berguling atas lantai shopping mall. Pendek kata most shopping mall kat KL nih penah Min landing. Alamanda, Jusco Equine, Mines, Sunway, Ikano, The Curve, MidValley...etc lah. de je yg tak kene. Paling latest, last Monday with spot plg best, entrance Kinokuniya KLCC. Bukan setakat baring guling² jer, disertakan skali plak pekikkan, hempas² badan atas lantai dan yg paling best she shout "Mama! Nak! Mama! Nak!. Mmg sah² la org carik mama nyer. Kalo ikutkan hati mmg nk biakan. Tapi sbb Kino tu agak aman damai, suara si kecik memekik lagi kuat dari background music kat dlm Kino.

Owh..lupa nk ckp die menjerit kat Kino tu sbb nakkan beads craft set. Walhal die dh sakan shortlisted buku yg die sendiri ckp nak. Alih² mase nk bayar die nampak plak colorful beads dlm box. Utk budak yg dh besar 4-5 years boleh la. Dh ckp no pon tak mkn saman. Habis die menggelupur, tahan je lah sabo. Pujuk punya pujuk..masuk restoran Al-Marjan. Diam. Sbb dpt makan cookies.

Balik jer rumah, online. I found this article about taming toddler tantrums from AskDrSears.com. Very useful. Kebetulan this morning my dear Farah shared a video, Farissa making a scene at Toys 'r Us Subang sebijik mcm Min cuma Farissa sopan tak jerit²! Owh dear Farah, welcome to the club. Nk tgk video si chubby Farissa mengamuk click link I letak tu.

9 comments:

Ms.Rainna said...

melor tau x mane nak cari maze bead yang cantik/comel eh? selain kat ikea. xde idea la :) tq

Melor Rahman said...

Kat Puchong ade satu kedai mmg jual n supply wooden toys. Ni alamat kedai Smart Station, No. 20 Jln. Puteri 5/1, Bandar Puteri. Kat area kedai2 baru bukak tu. No tepon nih 03-80684810. Jgn terkejut lak aku kasi segala info sbb aku simpan lagi biz card diorg ehhehe. Mase aku pegi setahun yg lepas diorg ade dari yg kecik sampai la yg mcm kotak tu. lagi hebat dari ikea nyer ehehe. price not bad sbb diorg import terus from china. lame dh tak pi sane. Kedai tu sederet ngan kedai craft DMC.

Selain tu boleh pi tgk kat Toys 'r Us, Mothercare.

Kalo tak kisah beli yg 2nd hand boleh try 2nd hand toy blogshop nih:

http://tiabarney.blogspot.com/
http://secondbargainbox.blogspot.com/

takpun try list MOBS nih mane tau jumpe yg sell online :D

http://malaysianonlinebabyshops.blogspot.com/

Nadra Farissa said...

GOD melor.. sometimes mati akal nak wat camne about the tantrums ni.. nak biarkan memalukan.. nak marah pun memalukan gaks.. huhu.. the link u gave was really helpful tho.. nanti i try..

Melor Rahman said...

jom kita sama² wat experiment haha!

fusherna said...

ur story ni i baru tgk kat tv td (tv aussie ni la kan).lupa tajuk ape.
kes sama mcm urs.they asked the parents to totally ignore the kid.mmg la embarrasing kan..but its only for the better.esp when u 'reward' that behaviour..sort of reinforce ur kid.
i used to have the same prob but ignoring her helped me.i used to tell her 'u can cry as much as u want, still u're not having it'..tebal muka jugak la sbb semua org tgk u kan..but who cares..now syukur sgt2 cos she behaves better.best of luck!

Melor Rahman said...

thanks hus!

fadh said...

budak yang masuk peralihan umur 2 tahun nih.. memang sangat menguji kesabaran parent dia.. sebab dia rasa cam dah besar sangat.. semua nak buat sendiri.. orang cakap tanak dengar... memang betul2 terrible...

cam melor gak.. kak fadh pun buat research gak how to manage the tribble two tantrums ni..

antaranya.. bila nak marah dia.. kene cakap cara berhemah.. dan pandangan mata kene sama level dengan dia.. jangan kite berdiri dan memandang dia ke bawah ...

tapi takpe melor.. tak lama.. masuk 3 tahun.. dah ok dah...

haziq dulu camtu laaa.. tp bila dah beso ni.. dia sangat behave...

fahim plak buat perangai... hehe

Melor Rahman said...

Melor rasa yg part bercakap mata satu level tu melor slalu tinggal. Insyaallah akan cuba praktik lepas nih. Thanks kak fadh!

Sew Addicted said...

melur..

oh my.. anw, thanks.. good info utk mak pak yg anak kecik lagi nih.. hehehe..

-misa